Sacred Sexuality Coaching
I’m Jeanette, a
VITA*- Love, Sex, and Relationship Coach.
Helping people break out of their boxes and move into radiant states of being through embodied practice and emotional empowerment is my JAM!
I guide women and men on a journey of self discovery, finding the sacredness in their sexuality for inner power, peace and pleasure.
Come experience this transformative and healing process that leads to a thriving, vibrant life.
SacredSexySoul
Welcome
Offering
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Women
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Men
1-1 Online coaching
Tantric Mastery Package
In-Person Coaching
The Coaching Methodology
This empowering approach combines the ancient wisdom of Tantra, Taoism, and sacred sexuality along with modern science and psychology.
It’s unique, in that instead of focusing on what’s wrong, the awareness is on your deepest, truest hearts desires and how to use pleasure as a pathway to transformation.
The Practices
This approach utilizes holistic tools like breathwork, visualization, body/mind mapping, pleasure practices, trauma healing, meditative practices, energy work, sounding, and movement that blend modern neurobiology, & modern coaching.
It brings me ultimate joy
to walk with you on your journey of healing, integration, expansion, empowerment and pleasure filled aliveness.
This is a co-creative space where ALL OF YOU is welcome.
My intention is to hold you with honor, respect, dignity and safety.
With loving, compassionate presence, I will guide you to emerge into and fully embodying the most glorious version of YOU.
What it’s like
This coaching methodology is both powerful and pleasurable. Self development and self realization does not have to be all hard work, it can be filled with delight and high vibrational mental/emotional energetic states.
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If you are curious about working with me, the first step is to fill out either the quick contact or the full intake form on my contact page.
Filling out the inquiry will help me better understand what you are hoping to receive from our time together and the main goal or desires you want to work on.
From there we will schedule a discovery call or zoom meeting to get to know each other and see if we are indeed a good match for this style of coaching.
The discovery call can be 15-30 minutes long.
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Two of the many ways we add positive energy into our sessions are:
To “put your crown on” - Meaning, When we open the container of the coaching journey, I ask you to remember at your core, your original essence, the YOU that you were born as, is innately good, divine in nature and to practice holding your head up in dignity, love, compassion and self leadership, as we go through the practices.
CELEBRATIONS! We do this practice at the beginning of most sessions.
What are you proud of? What do you want to brag about? What do you want to scream from the rooftops about? What is good, great and fabulous in your life?
Go big and unabashed!No holding back!
We’ve been conditioned to relate from our pain or our struggle, or by what’s not working in our life.
That comes at the expense of not relating in our greatness.
You can’t win in environments where celebration isn’t okay. Here you will learn to focus on the positive, to shift your mindset from “what is going wrong”, to noticing all the ways things are going well.
Celebration creates momentum - what you momentum - what you celebrate, you get more of.
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We start off by establishing your Desire Map, a collection of your goals and desires for our work together, and in a larger view, for your life moving forward.
Desire mapping is so important. We take time to find the truth of your hearts most deepest and authentic desires Making sure they are in alignment for your highest good. This creates the North Star for our sessions together.
Desire mapping is a part of every session, keeping us on track and moving towards living the life of your dreams.
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Creating Safety and Sacred Space
Grounding Meditation
Celebrations
Present Concerns Talk
Desire Mapping
A Five Senses Reality Visualization
BodyMind Mapping and Exploration
Practices to Dive Deeper
Empowering Skills and Awarenesses
Inner and Outer Work -to be done on your own between sessions.
Reflection and Gratitude
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Our time together will have structure, goals, ritual and somatic practices. Present moment awareness will guide us to what’s most important in any given sessions. We can always shift plans.
Your unique core desire will lead the way for what we work on in a session.
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Here are some session themes.
Desire Mapping - Celebrations
5 Senses Reality - Body/Mind Mapping
Liberating the Family Dynamic
Embracing the Inner Child
Creating a Thriving Sexual Ecology
Getting What You Desire
Finding Emotional Empowerment
The Power of Intentional Self-Pleasure
Journey into the Self
Vibrant and Healthy Relationships
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THE WISDOM OF THE BODYMIND
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The key to this amazing transformational work IS IN YOUR BODY
We experience life through our bodies and senses, and if we want to feel more integrated and healed, the body needs to be intentionally engaged in the process.
During somatic or embodiment sessions, we engage thinking, feeling, sensing, intuiting and actions.
We learn to tune into our body, to listen and relate, as we pay attention to sensations and internal wisdom. We tune into what is called the BodyMind.
Embodiment practices can allow for infinite wisdom to unfold rapidly and consistently.
Through the body, layers of healing, empowerment, and liberation are possible.
Once you understand that trauma is stored in the body, and as such can be healed with a bottom-up approach, you can feel hope and excitement again.
EVERY SESSION WILL INVOLVE BODY/MIND MAPPING
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It is remarkable how the body communicates. With a sense of curiosity and present moment awareness, we feel into the body, ready to listen to the messages it has to share.
We hear and hold these messages with love and compassion. We learn to listen to your body-mind’s needs, and from that awareness we do integration processes that will profoundly heal those past wounds, the rejected or neglected parts of us that are screaming for attention, affection and protection.
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THIS IS WHERE THE MAGIC HAPPENS
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That’s because when you give yourself permission to let your body-mind wisdom speak through you, you also have the most magnificent experiences.
The only way to really understand how this works and feels is to experience it yourself, as it is hard to put into words. I invite you to take a deep dive with me and taste what your magic looks like.
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CREATING THE INNER ECOLOGY IN ALIGNMENT WITH YOUR SOUL’S DESIRES
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Once you are able to be more present with your body, you are familiar with so many different pieces of your body-mind – and all the consciousness they have – we keep healing, integrating and empowering the parts that come up so that you can achieve your goals and desires.
You’ll notice that the messages from your deeper intuition, from your body-mind wisdom, are really aligned with your soul’s purposes, and together we’ll create the appropriate inner ecology that will allow you to thrive. -
It’s my greatest desire that everyone has the opportunity to reconnect with their sexuality in the most loving and authentic way that is possible and available to all of us, regardless of your upbringing or past traumatic experiences.
You are also worthy of sexual bliss! You belong here!
Because pleasure is a key aspect of our embodiment journey, you’ll also learn beautiful and inspiring ways to reconnect with your sensuality and sexuality from a place of power, agency, potency and divine inspiration.
You’ll learn Sacred Sexuality embodiment approaches that are based on Tao and Tantric Traditions, and you will understand how sexual empowerment is the missing piece towards a fully thriving life.
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This work is designed to be an online offering. This gives you the ability to have a safe, private, comfortable space for you to explore your journey with me.
This allows me to work with anyone around the globe. ( If you speak english- sorry, I am limited in that way)
However, I can work with you in person. I have an office space in Saratoga Springs New York. This is a unique experience as I can lead you through the coaching session while you relax on my massage table.
Depending on what is needed in a in-person session, I could also offer energy work or hands on guidance as I have been a certified/licensed/trained bodyworker for over 30 years.
I am also able to travel to meet you for a mini retreat of embodiment coaching. I can travel 3 hours from where I live easily. (Which includes NYC, Boston, NJ, etc.)
This will include travel fees and time to plan. We can have a call to discuss.
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For any real shifts to be made in your life, there needs to be a certain level of dedication to your showing up to do this work. Transformation takes time.
First we discover what your goals and desires are.
Then we discover what are the limiting beliefs, fears, resistances, blocks, doubts and old patterns that are keeping you from living your desired life.
Then we take time to dive deep, unravel the truth from the unconscious mind and work on rewiring for new patterns, thoughts, actions, beliefs to set in. We work on creating new neural pathways for higher states of being. Opening you up to living the life your heart desires.
Yes, I can do a one off session and a lot can be learned from that. However packages of 3 or more will absolutely create changes in your life.
Helpful Definitions
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VITA™ stands for: “The Vital and Integrated Tantric Approach.”
VITA coaching aims to help people integrate blockages, fears, and contractions around their sexuality, hearts, and relationships. The goal is to reveal the wholeness and health that is a person's birthright
VITA's core values include:
Sexuality is sacred, beautiful, powerful, and natural
Pure love is the primary force that sustains us
Meaningful relationships are necessary for a joyful life
All of us are sensual beings with a tremendous capacity for love and connection
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Tantra is an ancient philosophy and practice. The word Tantra means “to weave”. Tantra believes that everything is sacred. Weaving together spirituality, mindfulness and sexuality..
There are 2 types of Tantra that people practice today. My teacher Layla Martin studied both in India many years. However we focus on Neo- Tantra in this coaching style.
“Classical Tantra - the spiritual tradition that originated in India and flourished between the 5th and 12th Centuries. During this period many thousands of texts were written detailing the Tantrik practices and their commentaries, these were called ‘Tantras.’ The various yogic practices and beliefs were all aimed at elevating consciousness, exploring the nature of reality, and achieving spiritual liberation.
Neo Tantra - a movement created in the early 1900’s in the West that focussed on some of the practices within different streams of Eastern spiritual traditions from the Indian subcontinent to China (Tantra to Taoism) and the ways in which erotic energy could be cultivated and controlled through sacred sexuality practices. “ -The Light Collective
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Sacred Sexuality is an ancient spiritual practice that honors the sacredness of the body, the power of sexual energy, and the connection between physical and spiritual realms. It is a way of deepening our connection to ourselves, to our partners, and to the divine. Sacred sexuality is a practice of mindful awareness and conscious connection that can be used explore our own inner depths and connect with the divine.
Sacred sexuality is a holistic approach that honors the body, mind, and spirit. It is based on the belief that sex is a powerful force that can be used to heal, transform, and empower us. Sacred sexuality recognizes that sex can be a source of pleasure, connection and growth. It also acknowledges that sex can be used as a tool for personal transformation and spiritual exploration.
-Martha Tara Lee, relationship Counselor & Sexologist, www.ErosCoaching.com
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Soma comes from a word meaning "body" in Greek, so somatic means "of the body" and is most often used in connection with one's health. You may be more familiar with the related word, psychosomatic, which describes a physical condition or illness caused by the mind rather than a virus or a sprain.
Being “embodied” signifies: feeling at home in your body. feeling connected to your body in a safe manner. an increased ability to be in your body in the present moment and to feel all of its sensations (emotional and physical)
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Bodymind is a concept that describes the relationship between the body and the mind as a single integrated unit.
LOVE IS THE SUPERPOWER
“We start with love – it is the magic ingredient through which all transformation can happen. It is the core of the universe.
We address not only the tools to tap into love, but also the tools to bring that love to our pain and wounding around love. Almost all emotional wounding and trauma is sourced from a lack of love or the perception that love wasn’t there.
The VITA™ Method provides a systematic way to meet EVERY part of ourselves with love. It can be really difficult, but when you do it over time you create neural networks of love.
On this path, parts of you that are hidden, that haven’t been loved, will bubble up within you. Of course they wouldn’t do that if they thought they would be met with criticism. But when you come from love, they arise to be loved, healed, and integrated.” -LM
Everything we explore together is bathed with a sense of being in alignment with the highest love, deepest consciousness and honoring your unique human experience. Everything shared is held as sacred and confidential.
PLEASURE AS A PATHWAY TO LIBERATION
This coaching method is extraordinary in that we use pleasure and sexual energy to create a supportive resource to help meet our challenges, our blocks, our traumas, and our shadows. Sexual energy can be cultivated as a dynamic tool to awaken your whole system, to heal, and to liberate yourself from what is blocking you from living the life you desire.
Sexual energy is viewed as a beautiful powerful life force energy. When approached with reverence, pleasure and sexual energy can be so incredibly nourishing for the body, mind and soul.
You will be invited into practices that you do in the privacy of your own home to cultivate sexual energy. HOWEVER, all of the practices can also be done with just meditation and visualization or even energy work. Self touch or pleasure practices are at your discretion. We will always honor the bodies yes’s and no’s, especially if there was trauma involved. We work with a trauma informed container and move at the pace most comfortable foe you.
What would it feel like to thrive?
You’d be able to….
To radiate power, confidence and soul.
To lead a fulfilling life. To live in a way that that turns you on and lights you up.
To know what it means to live as the highest expression of your unique gifts and talents, your wisdom, your self leadership and joy.
To feel brave enough to open your heart and let yourself be touched by others.
To trust yourself to be in intimate, meaningful relationships, while honoring your sense of self and holding your dignity all along the way.
To embody your sense of agency and really own your right to choose. You reclaim your power to decide and to recognize your ‘yes’, ‘no’ and ‘I don’t know’. To have healthy boundaries.
To connect and attach in a deeper and more secure level – with family members, romantic partners, professional relationships and different members of your community. !
To fall in love with your body and really enjoy feeling all sorts of pleasure and aliveness, including sexual pleasure.
To realize that you can use sexual energy as a portal for manifesting the life of your hearts deepest desires.
I teach and guide women, men, couples and groups about…
Embodiment - Meditation - Visualization - Breathwork - Sensuality - Healing - “BodyMind” - Felt Sense - Feminine Empowerment - Neo -Tantra - Energy-work - Yoga - Chakra Activation - Ecstatic Dance - Sensual Dance - Sexuality - Intimacy - Microcosmic Orbit - Transformation - Pleasure Practices - Shadow Work - Bliss - Energy Orgasm - Lost Self Reclamation - Conscious Communication - Qualities of Touch - Sexual De-armoring - High Vibrational States - Couples Intimacy - VITA - Urban Tantra - Kundalini Rising - Goddesses - Ritual - Ceremony - Honoring - Celebrating - Clearing - Desire Mapping - Thriving - Body Blessing - Pleasure Mapping - Sex Magic - Aliveness - Trauma Healing - Elevation - Release - Expansion - Liberation - Senses Awareness - Peace - Acceptance - Primal Nature - Yoni Wisdom - Remembering Soul Truths
LOVE
I am currently a student of Layla Martin in the VITA, sex, love and relationship coaching certification training.
It’s more than a year long course with over 600 hours of in-depth training.
2025 I will start studying my chosen majors which will take about another year to complete. My majors are- Feminine Empowerment, Tantric Sex and Mens Sexuality.
I will graduate the end of December 2024.
I am currently working with practice clients.
First 3 sessions are free.
2025 I will start taking new clients as a certified SLR coach.
Please email or text if you are interested in future coaching.